Turning Point

I have struggled with dressage with Spot for oh, probably the last 1.5 years of our partnership. We really started to work on dressage when I started taking lessons with Trainer M regularly and our main goal was to be able to have Spot work correctly and be more relaxed.  Coming from a polo background, relaxation is not a thing for Ms. Potato; neither is working into contact (unless its dragging you to the polo ball) or working over her back (does bucking bc she’s pissed at you for missing the ball count?).


Dressage is soooo hard. Took a solid 40 minutes of negotiating to get her here. 

Over the last year though, Spot has gotten much better about contact now that she realizes I’m not going to yank on her mouth. She has had moments where she does work over her back and relaxes into the work, but those moments have been fleeting.

Then she got injured and everything came grinding to a halt for a bit. Then while going back to work she was having some stifle issues and needed to get stronger. We have done about 2.5 weeks of trot poles, walking up and down little hills, and straight line trotting up to this point. Spot felt more rhythmic and relaxed over trot poles, and she over all looked beefier.

giphy (1)

Much better over trot poles…need to keep her rounder over them though. 

Then this past week, things I think things clicked and came together for us. Spot was good in the contact from the get go, my hands were steady and with her, and then suddenly we had a lovely, forward trot. No fussing with the head, no giraffe neck, my hands weren’t shoving downward, and I wasn’t dropping the contact. AMAZE.

When I would ask her to be a bit more forward, instead of throwing her head up in protest, she proceeded to surge forward and come more into my hand. She moved out big, but wasn’t rushing and for the stayed soft in her jaw, when she did lock up a bit I was able to supple her and she went back to being soft. WHAT SORCERY IS THIS?!

I was pretty amazed and so ecstatic. I went out the next day kinda expecting our previous awesome ride to have been a fluke, but lo and behold we had another great ride.

giphy (2)


Have Spot and I started to figure this Dressage thing out?! Maybe?!

I’ve been so pleased with her attitude and willingness so hopefully this was a big turning point for us!

This entry was posted in Uncategorized. Bookmark the permalink.

14 Responses to Turning Point

  1. Amanda C says:

    She looks like a legit dressage horse!


  2. carey says:

    She looks great! I need to do trot pole with Thule dog to strengthen her stifle


  3. Karen M says:

    Whoa damn she looks fantastic!

    Liked by 1 person

  4. Emma says:

    I LOVE that feeling when things start clicking, and honestly believe the horses can learn to enjoy and seek that softness (at least sometimes haha). Nice work! I can’t wait until my horse starts figuring it out lol


  5. peonyckw says:

    Hahaha! Yes! It’s been such a great feeling…that softness and also the fact that she FINALLY trusts me enough to not yank on her. Charlie will get there! Time to get on the band wagon, dude! Lol!


  6. Avery says:

    Bazinga! Yes! Sometimes that time off can do wonders. Yay for things falling into place.


  7. L. Williams says:

    You guys look awesome! Yay for riding epiphanies!


Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s